Jobless Days

Why am I talking about Jobless Days here? Because I'm the one jobless now. haha. That's why I'm free to start writing blog.

Please ask yourself, whether jobless is a terrible thing to have in your life?

YES or NO?

I can guess 90% of the answer is YES.

Well, lets be a detective now. Lets analyse and also investigate why people are so afraid of jobless. 

From my own personal point of view, basically there are 4 major causes that created the fear of being jobless among all of us. Ok, lets see whether am I right or not.

First, is MONEY $$$!!!

Ok, I can guess it is almost 99.99% correct. People being scared of jobless is because of no salary, no income, no MONEY. Chinese has a quote : "Money is not everything, but without money you have nothing." 

Erm, Ok, I'm kinda agree with without money we can have nothing. Filial needs money, without money, you can't buy the necessaties for your parents, you can't afford a shelter for parents, parents have to work even they are old and weak, supplements for them to maintain a good health also need money, so and so. Therefore, in realistic Filial = Money + Cares.

Unless you willing to put down dignity and status, stay in rural area, do planting for self sufficient. Back to ancient time! 

Not even that, to find a girl friend you also need MONEY. 

Hey dude, no money, how to go for dating? Pretty girls are smart, they invested so much to maintain their prettiness as a kind of investment. They invest on themselves to attract a rich guy so that the rich guy can provide her a better life. 

Will you expect a pretty girl who put on make up and fragrance and dressed up to eat with you in Mamak, squeeze in public transport, sweat and get tanned skin under the hot sun? 

There are many real cases, girls are prefer to date with wealthy guys. For me, that's normal and understandable. Try to stand on the girls side to think, what is the matter in a relationship for girls? Is sense of security. There are many forms of sense of security, it can be gained from the trust between the couple, understanding between couple and finance stability of the guy. Well, for trust and understanding between couple are difficult to build, it takes time. Nowadays, girls are concern about the time they are sacrifice for a guy is worthy or not. Whether the guy will marry her or not? If not? OMG, she need to find another guy again, old lady? older mother? Therefore, girls now will rather to be with a wealthy guy to enjoy the material satisfaction first rather to suffer with a poor guy that both might ended up with broke up.

Ok la, try to be optimistic, just change your mindset that the fate is not coming yet. If you meet a girl that doesn't care about your finance instability and always supporting you, that is true love, please appreciate her and propose to her and get marry asap or else, introduce her to me. 

Erm, hopefully she is not alien. LOL!

OK, what are the next 3 causes of fear of being jobless? And don't forget to tell you why jobless days is also a fun thing in my life? Stay tune!!! Will continue it soon!